new life stage?

i felt it was a gd time being ministered last nite even today's sermon..quite aligned to i have been going thru..e bros' sharing, we talk abt wat does it mean to be a man at tis new life stage..some shared dat it's impt for a man to provide for e family..take on responsibilities..able to take things in its stride..ready for committed relationships among many other traits dat were mentioned

must say i havent reali tink abt it..not sthg reali in my nature esp when juz venturing out into work..feels dat many of e things voiced out..hmm..i am not there yet..ok..say learning more abt e Word can confidently tink dat i have been doing so..though its not easy man..tis two hope sem modules dat i have taken..ready for committed relationship? definitely not even though have e desire..tink it's quite two different things, liking someone and actuali in a relationship..u need spiritual stamina to run e race..and some gd foundations i tink it's needed..esp in wanting to pursue e best dat God has intended for any relationship..anyway..i dun see e rush to do so, neither w'd i push for it..one step at a time..

i just wish dat i can reali stabilise in my work..and adjusting to ministry,family,personal devpt well..dun want to compromise any of them..hopefully tis two mths..before e new yr begins..like wat someone shared dat it can be so easy to just focus on getting tangible results like exceling in yr work..compared to say growing yr spiritual life which is impt but might not be urgent esp in e society of ours..not 'friendly' to spend time cultivating w all e busyness n work..

which get me tinking abt how our society has progressed and will in e next few yrs..i do tink dat spore w'd do well..thrive in e next few yrs..e areas dat we r going into: IRs,water,life sciences..big returns due..but how abt our soul n well-being as a nation which is often left last on our masterplan or assumed dat it is there..i was juz astonished at e changes in e edn landscape here when i surfed the moe website e other time..when i did my part time job, chatted w a teacher..found out dat hey nowadays pri students have to go thru enrichment programs after their exams say psle..wor..unheard of during my time where all we noe it's juz playing and nthg else..things r just moving so fast..have we got even e time to slown down for a while n tink abt what we r doing..hey..where are we going? i do have reservations..esp say a teenager going thru tis information explosion..n having to learn to be multi-taskers/talents to develop..hmm..how w'd he/she be like when reaching adulthood? things like character building, integrity, moral qualities can't be taught n are moulded not when things r planned for..it takes a crisis to happen in order to learn dat?